Learning to stay present, connected, and secure in relationship.
Learning to stay present, connected, and secure in relationship.
“If we don’t learn how to expand our capacity to truly be with, secure attachment and healthy relationship is impossible.”
-RACHEL JACKSON, FOUNDER, MA MFT
TEN WEEKS:
What’s included?
10 participants (balanced relational field)
5 bi-weekly group calls
2 × 30-minute 1:1 sessions
1× 90-minute 1:1 session
Private group messaging space
Weekly voice note drops + practices
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PROGRAM OUTLINE
A group for masculine and feminine embodiment work through the lens of attachment styles. If you are ready to work with your anxious and avoidant tendencies through practice within a safe space of men, women, and other beautiful human beings. This space is for you.
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Between 2/16-2/26, please feel free to schedule your first 30-minute 1:1 session with me!
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Sunday 3/1: First group call — Foundations of Attachment + Safety, Masculine & Feminine Deep-Dive. Time: 1-3pm CST
We will dive deeper into:
Group agreement + introductions
Masculine and Feminine breakdown for the wounded and healthy expressions
Identifying the nervous system and inner child’s role in relationship
Identifying cycles as teachers
Setting rules, boundaries, and safety setting for relating practice
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3/8: Integration week
This week, we will engage in the group chat and start exploring what patterns you witness in yourself as you work with your masculine, your feminine, and growing more aware of your inner child and nervous system patterning around relationship dynamics (those taught to you, and those adapted).
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Sunday 3/15: Second group call — Anxious Attachment + Fawn//Fight. Time: 1-3pm CST
**Week 1 Option for 1:1 90-Minute Call with Rachel
We will dive deeper into:
Breathwork to breakthrough the anxious pattern of overthinking, clinging, and fixing
A Reframe for Anxious Attachment
Explanation of the underlying self-abusive tendencies in fawn (people pleasing) and fight within relationship
Practices to move from anxious toward secure
Group embodiment practice, allowing pause
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3/22: Integration week
This week, we will engage in the group chat and share what anxious, fawning, and fighting tendencies arise for us. When we feel ourselves step into these strategies, we encourage 1 new practice to rewire the nervous system circuitry.
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Sunday 3/29: Third group call — Avoidant Attachment + Flight//Freeze. Time: 1-3pm CST
We will dive deeper into:
A Somatic Experiencing process for the avoidant parts of self
A Reframe of avoidant attachment
The role of the nervous system’s fear in avoidance, fleeing, and freezing
Practices to move from avoidant toward secure
Group embodiment practice, moving toward
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4/5: Integration week
This week, we take ownership of our nervous system’s responses. Whether we fight, flee, freeze, or fawn, our nervous system just wants our attention. In our group, we deep dive into self-created safety and co-created safety.
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Sunday 4/12: Fourth group call — Disorganized Attachment + Expression. Time: 1-3pm CST
**Week 2 Option for 1:1 90-Minute Call with Rachel
We will dive deeper into:
The core fears behind disorganized presentations
The nervous system’s maneuvering tactics
Embodiment practice to sit with (partner work)
Group discussion around holding space for personal fears, while seeing another’s
Authentic relating and cycle breaking basics - making relationship simple, safe, and sacred
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4/19: Integration week
This week, we prepare for the closing of our group. We hold space for all parts of self. we check-in on the inner child and the desire for the nervous system to cycle the same patterns thru the relationships we attract. We engage in group forums around patterning and the movement toward cycle-breaking.
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Sunday 4/26: Final group call — Secure Attachment + Desire Embodiment. Time: 1-3pm CST
We will dive deeper into:
Secure: A 3-part approach
Integration around contemplating the masculine and feminine parts who are in pain
Owning desire as a act of security and energetic magnetism
The role of the body’s wisdom in secure attachment (emotional and energetic storage)
Taking authentic relating into your daily lives
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5/3: Final Week + Closing 1:1 30-Minute Session
This week, you and Rachel meet for your final 1:1 call to bring closure to our time together, discuss recommendations for your highest path forward in your integration, set goals, and do a final somatic experiencing tailored to your attachment and relationship patterns. Thank you for choosing yourself so that you can learn how to be with, in healthier, more secure ways.
Finally, authentic relationship skills + practice in a safe, container
Finally, a small group where you are invited into healthy embodiment
Invest in ten weeks that set the foundation for a lifetime of secure attachment with another.
$1250 INVESTMENT — SECURITY WITH RELATIONSHIP
THREE TO SIX MONTH PAYMENT PLANS AVAILABLE
Women, expand your capacity within.
Women’s Somatic + Secure Container.
Who Is This For
The person that signs up for this container is the person that is stepping into their full confidence within relationship. They sign up for this container because they are dedicated to understand their attachment patterns in relationship so that they can “master” healthy relating — not just for themselves and their nervous system, but for their career growth, for their partnerships, for their family, friends, and beyond. They sign up as their most curious self, with particular curiosity about how their nervous system responds in intimacy.
This is for the person who is ready to explore relational dynamics in a live, embodied way. They sign up as the vulnerable, courageous, brave and multi-faceted version of themselves. They want to practice secure attachment with others — not just learn about it through reading a book or watching a video.
Step into the version of you who shows up authentic, present, attuned, and unconditionally loving for all those that matter.
a message from rachel
For so much of my life i shrunk within relationship. I abandoned my desires. i morphed my passions to remain available for connection. I deeply wanted to be loved, to be chosen, and to keep peace.
It wasn’t till I got really honest about who i am and what i want that i began to truly embody balanced masculine and feminine energies. after years of learning “theory” for couples therapy, I came face-to-face with a radical truth...
This work is not about theory, and all about practice. This work is not about roles, and all about reciprocity. This work is not about fixing, and all about sitting with.
I am committed to a continual path where I release my patterns of shrinking and collapsing and hold space for men, women, and all humans who desire deep relationship to step into true healthy relating, with tools that work. i believe we were never taught how to be in relationship is healthy, effective and unconditionally loving ways.
So, my intention for this co-ed container? To harness a safe space for the wounded fears to bubble up and for the healthy expressions to grow roots. To give voice to our relational pain. To allow all people to be witnessed in their desire to love and be loved.
When relationships “show” us that we are not enough or too much (based on our meaning making), we remain victim to our past. This is the cycle we are quite frankly sick of. & we should be.
We have so much capacity for love in this life. It’s the whole purpose. The whole purpose of life: to love and be loved. I am committed to serving this mission to bring healthy relating into tangible action.
Anxious, avoidant, disorganized? It doesn’t truly matter. what matters is that you return to safety and wholeness through experiencing being held for all that you are. in this group, we experience the purest joy of being alive: relationship — safety to be with.
Submit an Initial Interest Application.
If your application feels aligned, I’ll invite you to a 30-minute 1:1 connection call between 2/1 and our first group call on 3/1.
This call is a space for us both to feel into fit, ask questions, and ensure the container feels supportive, aligned and resourceful for you.
Submitting this interest form does not obligate you to join. If we connect and you decide it’s not the right time, you’re welcome to decline — with no pressure or expectation.
Because these containers are intentionally small and relational, not all applicants will be invited in this initial round.
I’ll be in touch via email within a few days of your submission.